a realization brought by ondoy

i recently viewed pics taken by a friend immediately after ondoy damaged (almost?) all their stuff at home.

it was heartbreaking. it broke my spirit, and weakened my resolve. if that happened to me or my family, i would probably wallow in depression for weeks.

but not my friend.

she was very optimistic about everything. very thankful that they are all safe. looking forward to rebuilding everything. i discovered a newfound admiration in her. i haven't heard a single complaint, or any comment that showed the slightest hint of negativity from her. in times when people crumbled, she stayed strong. i admire that.

it made me think how whiny i've become. stress at work suddenly seemed so mundane compared to the stress that she might be going through right now. it made me realize i should also pay more attention to the blessings i receive, rather than things i don't or can't have. it's another wake up call to me that other people are doing far worse, but they are taking on the challenges without complaining.

it's not that my challenges are not as significant. after all, it's my life, and i determine what is significant or not. but my friend's attitude during her trying times made me want to be a better person like her. it's her outlook in life, her approach to tackle the problem at hand, her faith and attitude as a whole.

i can start with small things. i will try.